In response to this.
It’s the strangest thing I’ve been seeing for years. I’ve never in all this time heard someone take a Master from the BDSM community up on how that word, and the word slave, is intrinsically linked to slavery and thus should be abolished, and make everybody concerned feel bad for promoting centuries old ideas like human bondage and racism and on and on.
But Daddies and little girls always end up getting these questions about shame, about incest, about having father figure issues, and on and on. Little girls more so, perhaps because that kind of shit won’t fly with most Dominant men.
My little girl gave a succinct enough response to that rather wry question, but here’s my side, and it’s very simple: I can’t tell you why the word Daddy sounds better to me more than Master, anymore than I can tell you why I prefer fucking her little facehole more than her asshole, or her asshole, or why I prefer having her beg rather than simply letting her do something, or any of the myriad of ways that are specific to me. I have a fair number of ideas, but none of them will likely get to the root of why. What I can tell you is that in all those things, it is her obedience, her enthusiasm, her willingness to above all submit to doing everything to the best of her abilities to earn my pleasure that matters most to me.
If you want to get stuck on that word, Daddy, however, and not see all the other wonderful ways being a Daddy and a little girl satisfies his needs to be pleased, and hers to please, respectively, you might have set ideas and definitions of what BDSM is and is not. And while not wrong, it’s a highly limiting way to look at what is an all encompassing, liberating way of expression.